Damages and spiritual losses of emerging customary marriages in society and their solutions

Subject Areas : فصلنامه مطالعات میان رشته ای فقه

Ahmad Sarmi ¹ , morteza chitsazian ² , Ali Bahrami nejad ³

1 - PhD student of theology majoring in jurisprudence and fundamentals of Islamic law, central Tehran branch, Islamic Azad University, Tehran, Iran
2 - Assistant Professor Department of Theology, Motahari University, Tehran, Iran. (corresponding author)
3 - Assistant Professor Department of theology, Faculty of Letters and Human Sciences, Islamic Azad University Central Tehran Branch, Tehran, Iran.

Received: 2022-09-09 Accepted : 2022-09-21 Published : 2022-09-23

Keywords: Solutions, Spiritual Damages and Losses, Emerging White Marriages, Non-financial Rights,

Abstract :

It is a fact that spiritual damages and losses have effects on family leading to its rights to be abused and wasted culminating in the collapse of its foundation; something that are seen frequently in the emerging white marriages in our society, as these marriages don’t follow the principles of the legal and religious ones. These damages and losses include the couple going under the compulsion of covering up; men and wife enduring the resulting heavy mental and psychological burden, depression, along with frequent lying to cover up the fact; all just to satisfy mere lust and sexual desires, committing crime and guilt as the result, being deprived of legal and common protections, deflowered girls, loss in value of virginity, failure in their next marriages, short-term relationships, admitting to be permanently and absolutely single, promotion of childlessness or giving birth to illegitimate children, lack of satisfaction in sexual relationships due to poor quality relationships, increased number of abortions, decreased number of childbirths, decreased population, increased number of foundlings, increased number of unattended children, and children with no identification, creating the need to establish centers for the protection of unattended children and foundlings, overpassing the obscenity of illegitimate relationships, increased domestic violence against women, the couple's infidelity toward each other, increased corruption in society, insecure families, decreased physical and sexual health of society members, increased sexual diseases, drifting away from legal marriages, rise in legal age of marriage among the youth, rise in divorce statistics, increased number of runaway girls, general commitments violations, disclosure of man´s and wife´s secrets, accusations regarding infidelity, men´s abuse of polygyny by violating the legal principles and justice, ...